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The Legacy Retreat Part V

This was our extra day. We had breakfast. Max enjoyed cutting his grapes and watermelon.

We had taken the option to stay an extra day so we could go to Disney Hollywood Studios and fly the Millennium Falcon. It really was the only reason I wanted to go to that park, but we had a lot of fun. My brother met up with us and it was a laid back, easy day.

I wish I had gotten more videos of the storm troopers. If they saw a kid dressed as Kylo Ren or Darth Vader, they would call them Supreme Leader or Lord and ask them to come with them. I have no idea where they went.

If they came across someone dressed in a brown robe, they would halt them and ask for identification. It was pretty funny.

We flew the Falcon. It was everything I thought it would be. Jesse and I were pilots. Max and Sam were gunners. Two strangers were engineers. Max was not a very good gunner. He didn’t want to push the buttons for the first time in his life.

We had lunch in the Star Wars area. I had some sort of amazing falafel thing. I wish I could remember the name of the restaurant. We just kind of followed our noses.

Star Wars was just kind of everywhere. Even a little bit outside of the park. We went to the Indiana Jones show afterwards. It was so much fun. Even Max was captivated.

Admittedly, we didn’t go on a lot of rides or see many of the other shows. We didn’t stay for very long either. We were pretty exhausted from a very busy weekend. Ted, my brother, was okay with that as he had to drive back to Jacksonville that evening. Leaving early was a good thing.

While waiting for our Lyft driver, I managed to get a pretty nice picture of the sunset.

Jesse just couldn’t stand up any longer.

We left early the next day. It was a fantastic adventure, but we were happy to get home.

The Legacy Retreat Part IV

February 3rd started with that amazing breakfast. Sam, Jesse, and Max were taken to their sessions. Gabriel, Sol, and I were sent to a large room for the final meeting.

You know it might be a hard meeting when you see tissue boxes every 3rd chair.

I am trying to remember this from memory, so it might be out of order. Jill, a volunteer and a coordinator, spoke to us about the legacy of Inheritance of Hope. How the effects continue afterwards. I know that I will forever be thankful to my volunteers. Rob, Anna, and Emily will always be important to me and my family. Gabriel and Solomon plan to be volunteers at future Retreats. I couldn’t be more proud. This is how the legacy continues; families are served then choose to serve other families. I think it is a beautiful way to pay it forward.

Deric Milligan took the stand after Jill. The 14+ kids were sent to their own groups. This was where the tissues really came into play. He spoke of the creation of Inheritance of Hope. He spoke of the families it has affected, including his own. His wife, Kristen, passed away in 2012. Three months before her passing, she had created a video message for all of the people being served by IoH. She was not able to make it to the Retreat that was happening at that time and her video was meant for those folks, with words of encouragement. I believe it is now shown at all Retreats. If you wish to see it, it can be found here.

The final meeting was hard and beautiful.

Our volunteers gave us a gift of a photo book and a very large stack of pictures. It was such an unexpected thing and I couldn’t hold back more tears.

We were supposed to go to SeaWorld, but made the decision to go back to Universal. Our tickets and Goldpass were good for a second day. Why not?

With the rough morning, Gabriel bought the whole family lots of candy at the first candy store we came to. We had jellybeans for weeks. We went on rides we hadn’t made it to the day before, as well as a few rides we had ridden, and just thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.

Mardi Gras was happening at Universal. We managed to see a little bit of the parade as we were leaving. People were dressed in amazing costumes all day.

We were too tired to try to find a place to eat, so we just made PB& J sandwiches for the little guys and PB & banana sandwiches for Gabriel, Sol, and myself. It was a good ending to our day.

Two Years Later

I am still here. Two years ago, August 25, 2016, I received the hardest news. I had breast cancer and it has spread to my bones. In a way, I was a little relieved. The pain and weakness I was experiencing was not in my imagination. On the other hand, I was furious. I am still furious.

I ended my two years with a final dose of AC chemo on Friday and I will be making some of my favorite meals before the mouth sores hit. Friday will be French bread pizzas and Saturday will be one of my favorite Indian meals, potatoes and onions on dosas.

This past year has had its ups and downs, as every year should. I was so disappointed in my hormone therapies failing and so very nervous about starting chemo. I requested the most aggressive chemo treatment I could get and I have responded pretty favorably to it. The side effects are hard: mouth sores, fatigue, low white blood cells, hemoglobin dropping. The upside has been lower cancer antigens. My CA 27.29 went from 756 in March to 137 a week ago. I have talked about the antigen count before and, while it is not a super accurate account of how cancer is progressing or regressing, big drops are positive.

I did not have any big trips, like my Paris trip last year, but I did surprise my husband with a Violent Femmes concert at the Oregon Zoo to celebrate our 20th anniversary. I also booked a yurt through AirBnB. Staying in a yurt pretty much completes the Portland, OR experience. In about a month, I will be taking my eldest son to his first concert. He has no idea what we are doing. I am very excited about it.

My oldest friend, Mandy, was able to visit me for a few days with her family. We had a blast. I took them to Maryhill Museum and the Maryhill Stonehenge monument. I loved having all of them here.

Max adores Makayla and Meg. Meg taught him all about Snapchat. That is still his favorite thing.

Sam made a new friend. He and Ryder had so much fun together.

I have also managed to get in contact with people who have become important to me. I was able to spend a couple of days with two of them and those days were wonderful. Thank you so much for coming to see me, Peg & Matt. I believe that your visit helped with my current “pretty good” blood work. The white rabbit worked for Friday. I love you both.

I took them on the B Reactor Tour.

My family and friends have helped to build me a dream deck on the front of my house. It is big enough to seat our family for dinner and will be perfect for my yearly Witches’ Tea Party.

I also made the decision to reopen my jewelry store on Etsy. I have missed creating stuff. I have a few commissions going on and I hope to eventually add in some sewing items. I have been slow about adding new pieces to my shop because I am also renovating my hobby room. It is almost finished. I just need to add shelves on the walls and get my work desk cleared off.

Our family also went camping for the first time in years. We managed to stay in North Idaho just before it got too smoky for camping.

We went to Silverwood Park while we were in Idaho.

I went to Sandpoint, ID for the first time.

I guess I have felt more normal lately than I have in a while. I am itching to go on walks again, but our area is so smoky now that even the healthiest person is at risk being outside for long. I may feel more normal, but I am in no way the healthiest person. I can go to the gym for at least the next day or so before my white blood cells tank on me. My eldest will be pleased. We have both missed working out.

This past year has been good in that I have been more physically capable to handle things. It has been hard with the treatment failures. I am still here and I am working on staying here.

Fuck you, cancer.

Baby J’s First Plane Ride

So, I am at the airport, waiting for our flight. With my smallest guy. My two older ones are staying with my in-laws while we are gone. For which I am indescribably thankful. If any of you have had the pleasure of traveling with children… you will understand.

My husband and I don’t take a lot of vacations. So, when his work decided to send him to Boston for training, we jumped at the chance for a fun trip together. We were not able to afford tickets for the whole family, so were super pleased that the grandparents agreed to take the older guys. Baby J is still breastfeeding and he is a free flyer.

Now, just because a kid flies for free does not mean easy travel. So, this will be an experiment of sorts. It will be Baby J’s first really big trip. He could be an easy traveler, like big brother Sammi. Or he could be a screamer, like big brother Sol.

Yikes. Way behind on updating.

I have put off my exercise schedule for the time being. I need to concentrate more on my baby boy than on keeping a schedule. I will get exercise in as I can, but I will not stress about it. I will continue with a running regime once he can hold his head better. As it is, we need to work with him to get him to the head holding milestone. We have had to take him to Seattle for therapist appointments and I have started to have therapists come to my house. So far, it just appears that his neck muscles are weak and need to be worked on. So, much more tummy time and various other exercises to work on those neck muscles. He hates it, but there is already improvement. I got a picture of him the other day doing his first “baby push-ups.” It is a fuzzy pic, but you can still see what he is doing.

I am hoping he will be caught up to his milestone markers by the time we go to Minnesota at the end of June. That way I will not have to lug around the baby seat in the airport. I would like to use a smaller stroller. The thought of having to lug around a lot in airports with 2 kids makes my hands sweaty.

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